is what hes doing to me a form of abuse?
Posted in England on 07/14/2010 09:48 am by admini have been with my boyfriend for a month and a half he is 24 and im 23. we made plans to hang out on the 4th of july which fell on one of his two days off a week. the plan for 3wks prior to the 4th was that we were going to spend it with his family at their pool and then see fireworks after. instead he chose to go an hour and a half away to East Boston to watch fireworks on a friends roof deck and smoke weed. i wasnt feeling to well and had a stomach ache so i was laying in bed when he called me he was already on his way to boston. so i told him to have fun and was being sweet about it to avoid and argument. at around 730 he told me if i wanted i could drive to boston and hang out with him and then drive him home in my car and his brother would take their car home later on in the evening. which didnt seem like a good deal to me since id spend the night driving. a half hour later i decided to go 20 minutes down the street to the beach and watch the fireworks my sister said she would be there. she never answered her phone so i watched the last 5 minutes of the fireworks with my friend matt who is like a brother to me since he lives on the beach.
my boyfriend has been livid these past 4 days and hasnt spoken to me at all. ive lost 10lbs from throwing up and having stomach problems because im so upset and anxious. ive tried to talk with him and he says i blew him off and didnt ask his permission to go to the beach. even though i believe he blew me off. he wont break up with me or even say a word hes just giving me the silent treatment